Those of us who are survivors probably have powerful fears that have been a part of our lives since childhood. These emotions can affect our decisions, our relationships, and our health. They need to be addressed but this cannot be done harshly and abruptly; our fears need to be dealt with slowly, gently, and carefully. “Two steps forward and one step back” is just fine when dealing with emotions.

As a faith leader who cares about survivors, you are asked to believe that God also cares about us and wants to help us with our fears. But you are also asked to be certain that God cares about your fears too.

What might be hindering you, and holding you back? You don’t have to be perfectly free from fear but you do at least need to know what those fears are, and be willing to work on them. Sometimes it’s a lot easier to tell others what they need to do while ignoring your own burdens. The first step is to ask the good Lord to help you become gradually aware of any personal fears (which may be well-disguised), and then pray—steadily, repeatedly—to be filled with greater awareness of God’s love for you.